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Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Marriage?hurm

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Lamanye x blogging~~haha..Kinda busy with my convocation and bla bla bla...anyway~~now aku nak share something ttg perkahwinan...even though i don't have any experience yet but i "analyze" other people...my target was someone close to me...I know that marriage is something that we should take seriously but how do we really know that we are making the right choice? Kadang2 manusia ng degil or blind sikit...di mata kite that person nampak perfect sgt...xde cacat cela but from others punye point of view maybe nampak something kite x nampak...Love is blind~~...I agree 101% with this statement...cthnye, there's someone I know that almost brake up with her fiance because her fiance starting blaming her family over something that I personally feel its ridiculous...but in the end she accept his forgiveness and act as if nothing had happened...and I am like what??!!..

If i were her, I will not accept that guy back coz he has crossed the line when he start accusing his bride-to-be family is the reason for his father death...Kalau kite berfikiran waras, kite taw yg maut ng dah ditentuakn oleh ALLAH SWT..dah ditakdirkan..For me, he is just trying to find excuses to run away from this new commitment...tapi dlm masa yg sama, aku pun try bygkan kalau aku dlm tempat dy... just imagine...berita ttg perkahwinan dah disebarkan to the whole family members...brg2 hantaran and venue smua dah prepare..rings pun dah beli...if suddenly wedding is off then what will happened to all of this?jwpn dy sia2 blaka..huhu..plus, malu la dy nantikan...but still...which is more important...your life after marriage or perasaan malu perkahwenan x jd?...if that person belum kawen lagi dah brani mengungkit and menuduh org camtu..just imagine after kawen...One thing that i always remember what my mum use to advice me.."Don't really trust your love one coz sometimes after marriage they will show their true colours"...Maybe time kapel, bersayang2 tp after kawen tgn tu lak yg melayang ke muke kite (case by case)...anyway...I respect her decision as i assume she is wise enough to make her own decision and wish her all the best...

Ckp ttg perkahwenan ng...pe kriteria yg org slalu cari dlm pasangan ek?aku tgk kdg2 org lebih tgk kepada luaran...tgk hensem or cun je dah cukup...pe guna hensem kalau xd keje tetap, betol x?...pe guna encem kalau pegangan agama goyah?...if encem + kerjaya tetap + personaliti A + pegangan agama leh tahan kuat dah kira package la...untung sape dpt package camtu...aku x la bermaksud nak cari org perfect sgt but bia la berpatutan...jgn pilih mengikut hawa nafsu...tkot menyesal dikemudian hari...restu ibu & ayah sgt la penting...kdg2 anak2 ng degil...kalau parent tegur kit about pasangan dyorg, mesti dyorg melenting...I still remember, there's one case whereby anak dy tuduh parent dy sengaja nak wat dy n bf dy pisah..nak sabotaj la...n bla3...ish3 x bek taw...walau apa pun yg blaku...family comes 1st...jgn blakangkan family especially parent kita...mesti ada sebab why dyorg larang or tegur kite ttg pasangan yg kite pilih...as i said, maybe they see something that we can't see...

Yang paling penting..kite mesti ingat "jodoh and maut di tentukan oleh Yang Maha Esa"..so if yg seorg x jadi..pasti ada yg len ag...hehe...buat pilihan dgn betol...I wish all the best to all couples out there yg akan melangsungkan perkahwinan  x lama ag...=)...smoga kekal sehingga ke anak cucu =3...aku menyusun 20 jari (temasuk jari kaki aku) if aku ada terkasar bhasa or ckp sesuatu yg melukakan hati u'alls....this is only my personal point of view...xde niat nak ditujukan kat sape2...love peace, no war k...






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